normalisasi cut off orang
ga semua cut off berarti ngajak musuhan, tp lebih ke ga mau kenal lagi aja. kamu berhak block, hapus kontak, ga nyapa kalo ketemu, ga ngobrol kalo satu tempat, dan menjauh dari semua yg bikin kamu ga nyaman, itu semua normal dilakukan biar hidup lebih tenang
Adulting advice??? Always make time for travel, even if it’s not an expensive trip. Take time to unwind and breathe. It’s crucial for your mental health. Visit the beach and don’t feel guilty about spending your hard-earned money. You deserve to enjoy life.
all I can say is PADAN MUKA to the vendors who keep overpricing drinks at bazaars. bagus juga Zus and Mixue entering the scene bcs maybe it will finally make these sellers reflect on what they are doing. kasi humble sikit.
My boyfriend noticed I’d been quiet for a few days and didn’t pressure me to explain. He just started doing small things. He charged my phone when it was low. Filled my water bottle before bed. Sent me “I’m here” texts instead of “what’s wrong” texts. One night, I finally broke down and told him everything I’d been holding in, and he didn’t interrupt me once. He didn’t try to fix it. He didn’t make it about himself. He just held my hand and listened.
A week later, nothing had changed between us. He didn’t treat me like I was fragile. He didn’t bring it up to use against me. He just loved me the same, steady and normal.
That’s when I realized real love isn’t loud. It’s safe. It doesn’t rush you. It doesn’t punish you for being human. It stays.
Take care of your appearance. Lift the weights. Eat healthy food. Sleep like an athlete. Dress like you care. Fix your posture. Moisturize your face. Your look is your business card. Make it look like you give a fuck.
Welcome 2026.
Someone once said. Allow ppl to distance themselves in order to fix their lives n re-align. Sometimes it’s not always about u. As someone who stays to myself when things get hard I know hw it feels people thinking u’re avoiding them when in reality u just need a moment to urself.