engaging with the stupid discourse tweets sorry but while emil is an adult, and is shown to make his own decisions, to a degree he cannot be trusted with his own autonomy (especially at the end of his life) due to his mental illness and pointing that out isn’t inherently ableism.
Ada is not the mature dommy mommy people paint her out to be. She's more of a lonely women who never got to be a kid. Her relationship with Emil is very messed up but I'd say she needed him more.
@invinsealble also isnt it so weird that their closest oomf aka the one theyre always matching with is 19 wtf a 19 yr old wanna have to do w a 12 yr old esp in a subtwt like tcctwt