Olivia and Charli have such an energy of I'm not like the other girls vibe and I'm sick and tired of it. It coming off extremely pretentious and arrogant at this point.
Selena Gomez shades celebrities who attended the Knicks game like Taylor Swift, Hailey Bieber, Timothée Chalamet, Kylie Jenner, Tate Mcrae
"so funny how some are all the sudden fans though lol"
I have a theory that her obsession with looking as tiny as possible is also tied to wanting to be infantilized and may be a somatic trauma response lol.
The fake baby voice, the oversized sweaters, the high school ponytail, acting like a shy little kid all the time, along with her constant need to ruin relationships, it feels like she might have had massive daddy issues growing up.
Maybe her dad walked out, or maybe there was a divorce, or something else happened, and her brain is basically stuck in this weird regressed child state because it feels safest there. Restricting her food probably also gives her a sense of control that she felt she lacked growing up because a lot of the time, EDs are about control.
It feels like she’s subconsciously recreating the trauma and separation loop because she witnessed it growing up and it feels comforting and familiar to her, it’s basically her brain somatizing the trauma. She targets taken men so she can orchestrate the separation herself and regain the control she didn’t have when her dad left.
But I could be wrong. I’m not even sure her dad left, but a lot of the stuff with Ariana just makes sense to me if that were the case lol.
conflicted atm. i currently live in an apartment and i love having 24/7 maintenance and a pool but id like more freedom to paint my walls and wish i had a backyard for my pups