I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to notice life with you. "taste this. look at that. hear this song." again and again. until you can't imagine noticing life without them.
Stop teaching a man how to be your man. If he doesn’t text first, do the same. If he doesn’t plan dates, buy you flowers, or reassure you, stop begging. The right man won’t need instructions. Stop expecting the wrong man to love you the right way.
tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
Ladies, believe me, men make time for who they want. They provide for who they want, spoil who they want, act right for who they want, communicate and reassure who they want. A real man won’t ever let his dream woman beg for anything, and if he does, he ain’t the one.
It’s really surprising that people are shocked that Gen Z don't enjoy work. Back in the day, work was to let you buy a home, travel and set up a few nice things for yourself. Would you feel the same way about work if it lead to none of the above ??