Sometimes we go through phases where we are constantly challenged+triggered & we wonder if it’ll ever stop+we’ll get a break. If you can, stay present in this & try not to escape/distract yourself. These are the messages+signs we need, to inform our truth, our path & next steps.
High standards often get mistaken for arrogance, coldness, or “too much.”
But in reality, they’re just clarity, integrity and self-respect.
Anyone who resents your standards or the boundaries that maintain them, benefits from you not having them.
Adjust access accordingly.
People don’t talk enough about how dangerous settling for love really is. I’ve seen it strip people of their peace, health, purpose, and their careers. All for the illusion of companionship. Be patient. The right love is worth the wait.
Passion and compatibility are important. But men and women should ADMIRE their person. If there isn’t deep mutual admiration, the type of admiration where you admire their heart, mind, soul, character and everything that makes them who they are, it won’t work
As we do the inner work, we become our own best friend.
And we no longer have to chase love and connection.
The right people show up, the right people disappear.
It may be easier said than done, but don’t let that stop you from manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Goals, growth+change aren’t easy, but you’re stronger than you think. So DECIDE. Are you gonna do it, or not? If so, get help if you need it, take breaks & believe in YOU.