Dating in SF (deprecated)

Online dating in SF - the trials and tribulations

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

I wish I could take credit for this but I cannot

https://t.co/hgQYq9wlsK

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Hehehe no commentary needed #onlinedating

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

As seen on Hinge: someone who doesn’t know how much a home costs in these High Cost of Living locations. #swipeLeft

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

This profile just swiped right on me. What should I do guys?

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Please respond with a 500-word essay to answer my interrogation. #interrogationguy #onlinedating #hinge

I did respond because I feel like it’s rude not to :/

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

“You are not my type but I’ll give you another chance.” Now it’s my turn for “THANKS BYE.” #onlinedating #hinge

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

THANKS BYE #onlinedating #hinge

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Left on read for sure!

[OkCupid @okcupid]

What’s worse: Someone not returning your call or being left on read?

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

@SPOSpartan104 Yeah I had a convo with #72catsguy the other day and he was like “people think I’m transactional in my relationships” and I’m like “WELL I CAN SEE WHY.”

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

In addition to being a logistics failure, #72catsguy also keeps trying to use me for emotional support, like "wow I'm crying because of this family thing." Bitch you broke up with me. #dating

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Remember this asshole (72 cats guy)? We're going on a group trip this upcoming week (we will both be on it). Working with him on logistics has been an absolute nightmare -he's a massive flake. I am super frustrated with this whole process and also that he will be there. #dating

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

@SPOSpartan104 This is confusing right? #theitalian sending mixed messages!

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

AND THEN ... I tagged him in an Insta story, which he immediately re-shared (cute) and also TAGGED HER IN IT.

SO WHO KNOWS. It's just awkward now. I think I'm done with this one.

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

BUT WAIT, there’s more! He then texted me afterwards clarifying, unprovoked, that they are NOT dating.

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

@SPOSpartan104 Yeah this was disappointing!

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

A one-off: guy and I start texting. Super great banter! Then he sends me a picture of himself in underwear holding his dick at 3pm in the afternoon while I'm at work. So many bad choices there.

#hinge #dickpics #whytho #pleasestop #seriouslyno #onlinedating #d8inginsf

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

This guy (#PrepSchoolGuy) will be at this same big group trip. He's aggressively trying to meet up with me both before and during the trip to plan and also to hang out. I'm pretty sure this is still a #justfriends thing.

#onlinedating

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

This weird one still limping along. He's since (in order):
* Got me a friend-zone Bday present
* Cooked another v. romantic dinner
* Disappeared to Dubai for a week; sent a postcard
* Invited me to nice dinner out
* Invited me to movie
* Signed up for destination race I'm running

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

I'm getting into hashtagging these folks, so this guy is now #theGhost. I honestly think he's going to resurface.

#onlinedating #theleague

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

So #yolo - we went out for coffee on Sunday. It was pretty good. We're both going out of town for a few weeks starting basically now, though. So who knows.

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

I forgot that #theItalian and I actually still have something quasi-romantic on the calendar for when I get back from my few weeks of travels. So that complicates things. #onlinedating

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

AND THEN ... I tagged him in an Insta story, which he immediately re-shared (cute) and also TAGGED HER IN IT.

SO WHO KNOWS. It's just awkward now. I think I'm done with this one.

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Remember this asshole (72 cats guy)? We're going on a group trip this upcoming week (we will both be on it). Working with him on logistics has been an absolute nightmare -he's a massive flake. I am super frustrated with this whole process and also that he will be there. #dating

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Guy got the job then ghosted me. #datinginsf #d8inginsf

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

BUT WAIT, there’s more! He then texted me afterwards clarifying, unprovoked, that they are NOT dating.

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

HOWEVER, last night we both went to yoga (I introduced him to this cool place in SF). He brought another girl with him (who is SUPER CUTE btw). I was a little "wtf," but then wrote it off - maybe I had misread the flirting. Still friends!

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

HOWEVER, last night we both went to yoga (I introduced him to this cool place in SF). He brought another girl with him (who is SUPER CUTE btw). I was a little "wtf," but then wrote it off - maybe I had misread the flirting. Still friends!

[Dating in SF (deprecated) @d8inginSF]

Over the past 1-2 weeks it's become more likely that he's staying in US, and we've commensurately increased our flirting. As of Sunday I was pretty sure something might happen!