What I mean is, kindness is a beautiful thing, but it shouldn't come at the cost of neglecting yourself. Be kind to others, but give yourself the same understanding and space to feel. Don't suppress it
Hating someone who hurt you badly doesn't always make you a bad person. Sometimes, allowing yourself to feel the anger, the pain, and all the emotions that come with it is part of letting yourself recover
๐ Sometimes I wish I was born easy to hate like others do. Udah disakitin gimana pun juga tetep gak pernah bisa benci, karena selalu inget kalau juga pernah punya kenangan baik dan saling sayang. Sighs.
Suppressing everything won't make it disappear. It only allows those emotions to grow stronger until they start consuming you. It's painful when anger becomes the only thing you know how to feel, when every bit of closeness and affection starts to feel like something to fear