I don't need you
Because I can be happy without you
But I want you.
............................................
*You're not a necessity
You're a preference*
Neither friend or foe will move exactly as you expect.
In that case, at least know your allies well.
Pay attention to your partner.
From their thought patterns
To their behavioral patterns.
Every little thing, and you'll learn to TRUST them.
Then you can let them roam free.
REDIRECTION 2.0
I've been looking the wrong way all this time, until I looked in your direction
#everydayNotesAndReflections
TIME: 10:59 PM, March 25, 2026
A MAN'S Y (Amansy ..calamansi)
A man who has a "Why", can bear almost any "how".
~ F. Nietzsche & V. Frankl
#everydayNotesAndReflections
TIME: 11:26 PM, March 11, 2026
WE DON'T NEED TO PUNISH PUNISHMENT
They 👵👴 came from the generation that;
¹Stays when it's hard.
²Forgives when it hurts.
³Fixes when it's broken.
⁴Hopes even in darkness.
👵:
"When something is breaking, we don’t throw it away.
Even when it no longer works,
We keep it."
Tayo'y magkatabi
Ngunit sa ′ting panaginip lang
Sa bawat araw′t gabi
Alaala ay ako at ikaw
Kahit ano man ang mangyari
Sa dulo, laging may bahaghari
Umulan, bumagyo, pangakong ikaw pa rin at...
IN FIGHT, PROTECT WHAT'S MORE IMPORTANT TO Ü
Protecting Yourself from pain...
Means Separation.
But
Protecting Your Partner from pain...
Means Connection.
#everydayNotesAndReflections
TIME: 5:34 AM, October 26, 2025
well, I just Imagined how sweet I can still be w/ him...
touching his chin (a day or two after they shaved... looking at their beard) & face, & hugging his head from behind while he's working on his desk.
Well, I think..
love really wins
or at least God defeated the Devil again.
YOU REALLY CAN'T BE MAD
When you really know they're your person...
Kapag talagang alam mong para sayo,
kahit ano pang galit mo,
Hindi mo talaga kayang magalit ng matagal...
Mapapatawad at mapapatawad mo talaga...
#everydayNotesAndReflections
TIME: 5:07 AM, August 31, 2025
Sabi ko, I need an "Ender"
while I'm erasing answers on my book. Then I when I looked at the randomly playing song... kaloka yan!
➡️ yung title ng song "END Of The World" HAHAHA wag naman klaseng ganong Ender ui! 😅
I didn't mean it that way haha
TIME: 8:41 PM, June 14, 2025
The 1 who
Responds with vulnerability
Makes real effort
Starts grounded plans (not just talk)
Is the 1 who is ready to cross the bridge from boyhood to manhood
Only from that place can he offer you the kind of marriage-worthy love you were built for
#everydayNotesAndReflections