@yappingfess Lagian bumi luas bgt, g mungkin pasanganmu jdi org paling sempurna. Klo udh nemuin yg kmu mau di pasangan, yaudah dipegang itu. Kecuali klo emg kurang cocok, y psah baik². Pastilah ada yg lebih 'menarik' di luar sana. Tapi cape ga sih kalo selalu ngejar yg lebih?
@yappingfess Bagus sih udh self-aware. Selanjutnya bisa mulai tindakan preventif. Stop deket² scr fisik maupun emosional. Jgn interaksi kecuali penting bgt.
Menurutku kyk gini lebih baik daripada denial dan diterusin akrab, tau² udh fell too deep.
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@tanyakanrl Knp tiba² suaminya ngomong gitu y? Tujuannya ap? Emg seperlu itukah? Would it harm someone if he kept to himself? Dia tau g y klo omongan itu bakal menyakiti hati istrinya? Apa dia ikhlas dg pernikahan yg skrg? Atau ngerasa trapped, jdi bikin pengakuan buat ngerasa bebas dikit?
@Tipsofllife@yappingfess Temen²ku udh apal, jdi yaudah. Pas ngobrol sama org baru kenal, aku kasih smacam disclaimer, klo aku tiba² ilang brrti ketiduran
@aneerbas@Benhaskell7 @yayfor1a @_jeweliet I think it's more about the tone. I mean, when the adult panic about a thing and raised their voice, my baby niece would process it as something threatening and worth fearing. Mind u, we said no phrasing atm. It's my niece, tho. Don't know about general children
@tanyarlfes Konsep ujian pernikahan tuh harusnya together against the world, ga sih? Misal finansial, sakit, musibah, dll. Kalo slengki mah ngelakuinnya aj udh ga together, malah diem².
@ona_nky I think bc the parents taught them how to hold their own leash (self control) instead of the parents held it for them (being controlled), so the self discipline kinda nurtured in them. Does that make sense?