Zaddy

Community Manager/Moderator, Content Creator, Shoemaker, Book 📚 lover, Fine Young Man. Z6ZKBZHA

[Zaddy @da_shoemaker]

@ElemSunny @jon_d_doe This is a lot to think about. One of the worst things you can do to me is tell me you are managing me. Do you know what it means when a spouse "feels NOTHING" for you? It's a tough one indeed. I probably wouldn't handle it well. So I'll just read the comments and learn.

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@maxvayshia That's the spirit

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@MrPitbull07 "we need to talk more". The question is talk to who? Who's there to listen? Who's going to lend a helping hand? They say " As a Man be aware of the fact that no one is coming to save you".
When you've hit rock bottom and have no one to talk to, and nowhere to turn to, what next?

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@maxvayshia Saving money of course.

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@unseriousguru Reading this while using a sim my ex bought and registered for me😁

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Why didn't anyone tell me the first two days of going to the gym would be like this?
I can't move my arms.
My body dey shake.

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@jon_d_doee You shouldn't even be with someone who has another man's name tattooed on her skin. Let alone, someone that did it while dating you. I have a lot to say, but the fact that you're still confused on what to do, there's no need to give you any form of advice.

[Zaddy @da_shoemaker]

On the Contrary, I believe a lot of people care about you. But I feel your salvation depends on you alone. No one is coming to save you, unless you're already saved, or on the way to Salvation, them you might be lent a helping hand.

[Dear Friend @OhDear_Friend]

CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT, I turn 38 this year and I have realised , as a man, no one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.

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@Wizarab10 A genuine question Sir D.
How many women in Nigeria today, that's working of course, would see her money as the Family's income?
I think the best thing to do as Men, is to marry a woman that's liberal, kind and selfless. Then have in mind that your home is your responsibility.

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@_BarnyO NEPA why????

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@jon_d_doe You came to my mind earlier today. I created content for YouTube, tiktok, Instagram, wrote just one thread here on x, then did other little things. Fiamm! 6 don nack.
I was like how does the Man control both pages, go to his normal job and still be a family man? Agba you dey try

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@Letter_to_Jack Definitely B

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@maxvayshia Ruled by Bad leaders.

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@jon_d_doee So sorry you're going through this. All I can say is, be strong. Know it's never too late to Start over. Unmarried people, please do not ignore any bad sign you see. Don't make excuses for them. Don't allow yourself to be gaslighted. If you see the signs, it probably time to move

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@aproko_doctor Extreme Heat.
Take the USA for example. Some of the coldest regions are Alaska and North Dakota. While Arizona and Nevada are amongst the hottest regions.
The population of Alaska and North Dakota is barely 1.5m. while the population of Arizona and Nevada is less than 10m.

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Starting over will cost you…

But staying the same will cost you more.

Choose your Hard!

[Zaddy @da_shoemaker]

Starting over is not easy.
You lose people.
You lose comfort.
You lose the version of you that felt safe.
But sometimes…
starting over is the only way to find the life you actually deserve.
It’s scary.
It’s lonely.
But it’s worth it.

This is your sign to begin again.

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@Letter_to_Jack Take care of your Health.

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@kenkenlewu Sold some of mine early this year. Still have some locked. I hope the second migration gets to my side too

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@jon_d_doe Or because the mother's are the envious one and instilled hatred in the heart of the Children, against the father's brothers.