This is why I homeschool and why I make sacrifices to pay for a private family practitioner.
The world has lost its mind. I’m sharing his video here because I already know his video will be taken down on Tiktok.
When we're unhealed, we're attracted to the "bad boy," chaotic, or unpredictable people. They give us the hit of adrenaline our body craves that we call passion. They allow us to play our familiar role of working or proving ourselves to be loved, just as we did as children. As we heal, we're attracted to safe predictable people whose words match their actions. Who show us love beyond survival mode.
If you were the trophy child, you probably spent a majority of your life trying to achieve or perform for love and are a self proclaimed perfectionist.
Here's why: