Honestly relationship isn't supposed to be a prison, people are meant to have a life outside it so yes go on friendship dates and take pictures but don't come back to me.
a lady on TikTok just said, “he never knew i could’ve supported him through all his dreams, because he never invited me to dream with him.” and i couldn’t stop thinking about how many plans i made in my head for someone who never made space for me in theirs.
You ain't a G until you lose it all, watch everything fall apart... Have the closest people switch up on you and still stand up, hold your head high, grind, take chances, and get it all back. That's the test.
Never again will I pretend to be the easygoing, low-maintenance girl. I like flowers & random acts of kindness I don't have to ask for. I like random "thinking of you" texts & sweet check-ins. I like forehead kisses & good morning texts. I like being taken on thoughtful dates I didn't have to plan. I like being shown off, like someone you're proud to have. I like affection, intentional time & little surprises. I like being loved loudly & I'm done shrinking myself to be “easier to love”. 🤍
Nobody prepares you for the fact that you will go through some of the most heart shattering experiences of your life and are still expected to show up for work. Take care of yourself. Pay your bills. Meet your goals. Just carry on… it’s awful
People lack accountability, then say, “You could've talked to me” No, I couldn't. You don't listen, You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. And honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand.