Stop assuming people have extra money to lend or give just because they own nice things. There are bills, debt, savings, and planning behind all of this.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect does not exist. Your actions caused this outcome — so why are you standing there shocked, playing the victim.
There is NO REASON you should ever be in a relationship with somebody who will sit back and WATCH YOU STRUGGLE and then applaud you for not needing them. Independence is for single people. So if you gotta be independent while a man is sitting in your face, you might as well be by yourself boo.
Watching people reveal themselves has been enlightening. I refuse to crash out or explain myself to anyone with bad intentions towards me , I refuse to let anyone tigger my mental health therefore I will not be speaking on anything that was meant to slander me or get a reaction
Never again will I pretend to be the easygoing, low-maintenance girl. I like flowers & random acts of kindness I don't have to ask for. I like random "thinking of you" texts & sweet check-ins. I like forehead kisses & good morning texts. I like being taken on thoughtful dates I didn't have to plan. I like being shown off, like someone you're proud to have. I like affection, intentional time & little surprises. I like being loved loudly & I'm done shrinking myself to be “easier to love”. 🤍