Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
If love was real, the answer would've been, “let’s fix this,” “let’s fight for this.” Not silence, not avoidance, not distance, but effort. Real love doesn't give up, it shows up.
i saw a quote that said, "if you don't clear your misunderstandings in time, they become the reason for permanent distance." and that's realest shit ever.
Unpopular Opinion: The most important communication is the message you send to yourself by leaving a situation where your words are twisted, your reality is denied, and your peace is destroyed.
If your girl still bring up old shit, maybe it's time to sit down &talk to her about it. Yes it may be annoying, but that clearly means it's stuck in her head and it's been weighting heavy heavy on her heart. Just as bad as you want her to forget, she wants to forget it 10X more.
No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that comes from being with someone who’s emotionally inconsistent, unkind, or misaligned with your core values.
i’ve seen people workout at 4 am before working two jobs. i’ve known introverts who became great communicators when an important relationship needed it. i’ve seen people who weren’t “ready” suddenly commit to the right person. people give effort to what’s important to them
and suddenly i became the person who takes forever to reply, likes to be alone, will ghost you, doesn’t care about anything, and will not care if we fade away