Quote of the day
“ Why are you going to give him a second chance, when they are so many others waiting for their first?”
- Melanie’s mom
#LoveIslandUSA
THINGS I DONT DEBATE WITH MEN :
1. Abortion
2. Breastfeeding
3. Menstruation
4. Female body hair
5. Birth Control
6. Access to feminine hygiene products
Why? Because NONE of those involve the male body & therefore don't create any valid MALE OPINIONS
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
So you mean to tell me that someone down your ancestry line survived being chaıned to other human bodięs for several months in the bottom of a disease-infested ship during the Middle Passage, lost their language, customs and traditions, picked up the English language as best they could while working free of charge from sun up to sun down as they watched babies sold from out of their arms and women rapęd by ruthless sIave owners.
Took names with no last names, no birth certificates, no heritage of any kind, braved the Underground Railroad, survived the Civil Wąr to enter into sharecropping... Learned to read and write out of sheer will and determination, faced the burning crosses of the KƘK, everted their eyes at the black bodies swinging from ropes hųng on trees...
Fought in World Wąrs as soldiers only to return to America as boys, marched in Birmingham, hosed in Selma, jailed in Wilmington, assassinated in Memphis, segregated in the South, ghettoed in the North, ignored in history books, stereotyped in Hollywood...
and in spite of it all, someone in your family line endured every era to make sure you would get here, but you receive one rejection, face one obstacle, lose one friend, get overlooked, and you want to quit?
How dare you entertain the very thought of quitting. People, you will never know, survived from generation to generation so you could succeed. Don’t you dare let them down!
It is NOT in our DNA to quit!
I reallyyyyy cannot be with somebody who’s dismissive of my feelings ! I understand you may not agree, understand or that it may not even be of the same importance to you BUT… do NOT be dismissive of whatever it is I’m feeling ! That’s a HUGE pet peeve !
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
APRIL IS GOING TO BE A GOOD MONTH.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.