I think friend betrayal hurts worse than betrayal from a partner because friendships are usually built on choice not obligation. A romantic relationship comes with expectations, jealousy, conflict, and the possibility that things might not work out. But a friend is someone who chooses to be in your life without any of that. They see your highs your lows & your insecurities, your wins, and often know parts of you your partner doesnโt. So when a friend betrays you, it can feel like they had a front row seat to your life and still chose to move against you. Itโs not just losing a person itโs losing trust, memories, loyalty, and sometimes the version of yourself that felt safe with them. Thatโs why for me friend betrayal leaves a wound thatโs harder to explain and longer to heal.
A lot of MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
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They shooting the messenger, but she ainโt wrong. Dating and sex were heavily demonized in a lot of our homes. We were told to stay away from boys and focus on school. The problem is that relationships are a skill set too and many Black women were prepared for careers but left to figure out dating, boundaries, and healthy partnership on our own.
Cardi has been caught doing pink coke on a yacht, Doechii has willfully uploaded a video of herself doing coke to her socials but Nicki who nobody has evidence of doing coke is the one being accused of drug use?
Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
Fixing problems, making sure youโve eaten, charging your phone, carrying your thingsโฆ thatโs romance to me.