"Good girl" conditioning has us believing our role is: to get other people to like or approve of us in social settings, to not "rock the boat", and to betray our own needs in order to appear selfless.
HERE'S HOW TO UNLEARN IT:
We were each brought on this earth for an individual purpose, our own reason that we get to have all to ourselves... so don’t you dare tell me that you aren’t as important or worthy of a happy life as anyone else
I come back here now and then & just scroll in absolute awe that in one of the darkest times of my life, I built a social media presence that spread light into other people’s 🥺
✨ This is your reminder that there are always going to things to work out &
that isn’t a factor of your incompetence.✨
𝘜𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘺 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦.
You can’t be a better version of yourself if you are around people who are consistently degrading you. It doesn’t matter how much you love them or how long you have known them... if they can’t stop, they don’t value you. They value what you can do for them.
i am here to remind all men it is okay to feel your feelings, to cry, to be stressed, to talk things out, to be insecure, and to show all your emotions. its NATURAL
A hard truth to hear is that whatever you resist will keep on persisting, no matter how much discomfort it brings.
Until it is offered a seat and space to express itself, it will never run its course to resolution.
Good morning all 🤍
So much has happened in my life since we last spoke, some highlight being ✨I moved to London✨& ✨got my first big girl job✨
But I just wanted to check in to say I’m still here & I’m wishing you all the best start to your weeks! 🌻🪴
#MondayMorning 🕊