I've tasted being the bigger person and i've tasted matching energy. i highly recommend choosing people who never make you act out of character. there's wisdom in remaining grounded.
people underestimate how much corporate teaches you. systems, structure, how decisions get made at scale, what bad leadership costs a company. you learn all of that on someone else’s budget before you risk your own.
@brileaux Wealth shifts the calculus of life. For someone financially independent, marriage and pregnancy aren’t survival strategies, they’re lifestyle choices.
Corporate life has a quiet rule:
Shine, but not brighter than the boss’s insecurity. That’s why the most competent guy is always told to “relax a bit.”
Honestly relationship isn't supposed to be a prison, people are meant to have a life outside it so yes go on friendship dates and take pictures but don't come back to me.
whatever you tolerate while DATING will multiply times 10 in MARRIAGE. marriage doesn't FIX dysfunction, it REVEALS all of it. don't marry POTENTIAL, marry REALITY
It turns you into a people pleaser. You avoid conflict because you can’t afford to lose access, help, or opportunities.
It makes you overexplain. You feel the need to justify your existence, choices, or mistakes.
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