I heard a girl saying "If she has to ask for flowers she doesn't want them anymore" but that really goes for everything wether it be love, attention or appreciation, bc it's no longer coming from you it's coming from me. Every woman's love language is not having to ask for !!
Maturing is realising an insecure man will punish you for the qualities that made him want you. At first, your light intrigues him, then it threatens him. Your confidence draws him in, then he chips away at it to keep you within reach.
can y'all please normalize letting people be until they feel like being bothered again! yes i'm on social media, yes i see your calls and texts! i just don't feel like talking/texting…I will respond when my human interaction radar is reset. until then.…LET ME BE!
i wanna share something my therapist said about
anger that blew my mind: "your anger is the part of you that knows your mistreatment and abuse are unacceptable. your anger knows you deserve to be treated well, and with kindness. your anger is a part of you that LOVES you."
my therapist said “people who struggle with anxiety & depression can't remember a lot, bc they're too busy focusing on how to get through each moment so they don t actually experience what is happening to them, causing them to not form the memory they were supposed to” felt that.