Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away pointing fingers that you forget you too have abscess that need tending.
Somebody said “Respect is allowing your partner to clarify what they meant instead of deciding what they meant and arguing against an intention they never had.” And I like that shit
i really dead ass be loving tf out of my friends i will do anything for them anytime they call for anything in this world i am there. No bitch can bad friend me on NO DAY!
I just don’t think many of you are intelligent enough to partake in a lot of conversations. Especially with your inability to see other perspectives outside of your own and how yall talk to ppl who don’t agree with you.
You do not need to be fully healed to enter a relationship. But you do need enough awareness to recognise when your wounds are beginning to govern how you treat someone else.
In a healthy relationship, when your partner tells you that something hurt them, you listen with the intention of understanding them and doing better. You don’t turn the conversation into a debate about whether they had a right to feel that way. The goal isn’t to prove that their feelings are unreasonable. It’s to understand what hurt them and make a genuine effort not to repeat it. ❤️