If you are a the president your wife is the First Lady, if your wife is the president you are not the “first man” 🤔, if you are a king she’s a queen, if she’s a queen you not a king, ever heard about queen Elizabeth husband? Or him been referred to as a king?
Exposure is not identity, because you are exposed to it doesn’t mean that’s who you are or you have it, you are only in the environment where it exists.
Jsyk, that thing you begging someone for or complaining about to them they are doing it for another person w/o the person having to ask na like free will.