What so many women are finally discovering is... If I have to work, raise the children, come home to cook, clean, pay half the expenses and take care of a grown man then what exactly am I getting out of this?"
My little contribution to society is creating spaces where people around me don’t have to perform . They can simply come as they are and be vulnerable ...
Nigerians need to search their souls and explain why they hold their female artistes to ridiculously higher standards than male artistes.
You people ate and chuffed on “your body na meatpie” for almost a year to start complaining about the buzz a 2-week old song is garnering.
must say i actually would cut a man off for the shit carl did bc you will not minimize misogynoir towards me for public validation like are you insane?
It’s the result of how men have treated us for centuries. The consequences of their actions. funny how women setting standards is called misandry, but centuries of misogyny are called tradition.
Watching women, including feminists, who have argued for years that sex consent forms are unethical and neither legally valid nor enforceable because consent can be withdrawn at any time and bodily autonomy cannot be signed away, now argue that a surrogate loses her right to bodily autonomy because she signed a “contract”…
Before I am anything, I am first a woman. When men harass me, they don’t do it because I’m Christian or Igbo. When they rape me, they do it because I am a woman. When they catcall me, it’s because I am a woman. So I place my feminism above any religion, tribe, or other identity.
They learned to do women's nose jobs, breast implants, bbl, lengthen legs, hair extensions, eyelashes and nails, remove hair all over the body with laser, do artificial tanning, cut out the labia majora, but they still haven't invented a cure for endometriosis
let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. let them reintroduce their hobbies, dreams, and soul. familiarity shouldn't be a cage. love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.