always remember that people can only love till the level of their self love, they can only communicate to their own level of self awareness and behave to their level of healed trauma.
idk who needs to hear this but empathy without self respect will
always lead to self-sabotage because you'll be able to always see
the good in people but you'll use that as a way of justifying them
hurting you
never fall in love or even be friends with the person who's raised on survival yk why? bec that person is gonna do whatever to survive even if it's hurting you