a girl on tiktok said "if you wanted me to speak more highly of you then perhaps you should have treated me better...you don't get to narrate MY story of MY experiences with you". felt that.
birthdays will be a huge deal in my household. i don't want my children to EVER refer to the day they were born as just another day. that breaks my heart.
I think college ruined my perception of community in real adult world because the way i yearn for something that kind of only exist when you live on campus..