Some people are busy dealing with their own shit, so forgive them if they don’t have the energy to deal with your shit as well. It’s easy to say check on your friends but sometimes the person doing the “checking” needs to be checked on themselves. Life is happening to everyone.
all these nggas be doing fr is teaching you how to love yourself & to put yourself first. & it don’t be on purpose but every time they switch up, play w/you, or treat you in a way that you know you don't deserve, it forces you to tighten all the way up & choose yourself more & a lil harder. Then after some time, you will eventually stop being so impressed by anything that’s bare minimum energy, bc you learned the hard way what it costs to accept the bare minimum..
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
how to lose a guy in 2026:
support his goals
show interest
communicate
tell him you miss him
be nice
have a good heart
ask him how he's doing
be loyal
actually want to build a life
be caring
be committed
If yall doing all of this for some protesters I could understand why yall won’t wear the body cams.
It’s proving that yall are bullies in uniform more and more.