as an “actual” private person, i can over confirm that people becomes very odd when they can’t figure you out or what’s truly going on in your life and beyond the surface. most importantly, normalize lying to people who ask too much about your private life. people be weird asf.
I literally share everything I have. All my perks, resources, money, contacts, knowledge, clothes, shoes, bags, whatever. I share it all. So I’m super sensitive to selfishness and gatekeeping. Especially in the inner circle. I let it go but it hurts my feelings
I only cut people off for things they actually did. Not how I perceived something. And to me the why you did something doesn’t really matter to me. Because you handled it in a manner I don’t appreciate.