My coworker ended her five-year marriage over something most people would probably call “small.”
She told me that in their home, she naturally took on the chores. She cooked. She did the laundry. She kept things running. It wasn’t something they formally discussed... it just became the routine. And she went along with it.
Then she got sick. Not just a light cold... the kind where your body feels heavy and even standing up is exhausting. For once, she couldn’t function the way she usually did.
That evening, her husband came home, saw the laundry basket, and separated his clothes from hers. He washed only his. Later, he made himself dinner, plated it, and ate. When she asked if he could make something simple for her too, he replied, “I’m exhausted. I don’t have the energy.”
She said it wasn’t even the words that hurt. It was the absence of instinct. The absence of care. The fact that helping her didn’t occur to him automatically the way serving him had always occurred to her.
That night, lying there sick and hungry, she realized she wasn’t in a partnership. She was in an arrangement where her labor was expected, but his effort was optional.
People think love disappears in dramatic arguments or explosive fights. But sometimes it fades in moments like that... when someone watches you struggle and chooses convenience over compassion.
#intinyadeh
> Istri naik motor, suami naik mobil, jalan beriringan abis ngambil kue dr pasar.
> Tiba2 tas istri dijambret
> Suami pepet motor jambret pake mobil
> Jambret gak mau berhenti, malah tancap gas
> Jambret kehilangan kendali, nabrak tembok, mental, meninggal
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“‘memenuhu gaya hidup’
i’m sorry, but this man literally collects antique motorcycles for fun, and you want to compare that to her GoFood orders? at least she’s spending on food, something essential!
they way they twist things just to villainize women is ridiculous!!
mulai dr keracunan MBG (tercatat 8.649 org), PT Gag Nikel Raja Empat jalan lagi, monopoli BBM, 10 org meninggal dan 900++ org tersangka demonstrasi kmaren (2 org masih hilang juga), polisi inkompeten, pidato Prabs di PBB, pejabat2 stay di hotel AMAN NY, 38M alat tulis kantor dan 20M souvenir pemerintah tangsel, warga mulai putus asa mencari lowongan pekerjaan, fenomena buzzer sudah jadi industri, warga cemerlang disia2kan, DST.
gila org indonesia tuh harus sabar bgt ya.
YESSS, let the world know that the Indonesian police are indeed useless, this agency is indeed rotten but they are all shameless with their high salaries and allowances, they are all STUPID and ARROGANT!!!
sorry to say this but the police in indonesia are really useless. i have been at the police station for an hour, and no officer has come to talk to me. even the police sitting near me are just watching movies calmly .. what the .. hell 😅
I understand why Indonesian Foreign Minister Sugiono and Indonesia's ambassador to the UN are there. But in what capacity is Prabowo's son there?
#UNGA80