Being a sub doesn't mean abandoning yourself.
You can be devoted and still have boundaries.
Connection includes care. If your wellbeing is ignored then the loyalty isn't mutual.
Submission is a choice. Not a sacrifice of your health or happiness.
At their core, control fantasies aren't about wanting to be controlled. They're about finally trusting someone competent enough to hold power without abusing it.
I know from personal experience that suggestibility isn't a constant thing, some days it feels hard to just get into the right mind set, maybe you don't feel hypnotised, like you are just playing along. other days it is hard not to respond to every request with Yes Ma'am
"As a Dom you need to break a sub first" is outdated and wrong.
Being a Dom is about standing tall that a sub desires to kneel. Not beating them down.
Dom's role is to guide, cherish and protect.
Breaking a sub is easy. Supporting them while they grow is hard but rewarding.
๐ October is Spellbound's Birthday Month!! ๐
It's the month of Dahlia's birthday, Katana's birthday, AND SPELLBOUND'S 5 YEAR ANNIVERSARY!!!
All of our videos on MV will be 25% off all month to celebrate!
Thank you for 5 wonderful years!!