i fear i’m unjudgeable😭 i’m painfully self aware & trust i’ve already argued both sides, accepted the criticism, defended myself, reflected on it 47 times & i forgave myself before you even opened your mouth🤣😭
at this big age when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, just remove yourself. don’t try to understand them or try to make it make sense.
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
My discernment goes so crazy .. i literally can tell if you don't like me and you could be being nice... I can tell if you just talk about me but act normal around me .. I can tell if you have a bad spirit... I can tell allat.. and sometimes I'll think I'm tripping cause other ppl would be like no they not like that and whole time 😭 I was right!!