@cryinghoursonly recently it feels like i’ll never come out of this slump im in. this was a nice message to see and i hope it gets better. i just gotta wait my turn
You shouldn't have to convince someone to choose you. You shouldn't lie awake overthinking texts, decoding silences, begging the universe for a sign that they care. If someone wants you in their life - really wants you - they'll show up. Not with excuses. Not with mixed signals. But with clarity, effort, and presence. Love isn't supposed to feel like a guessing game. And if you're constantly wondering where you stand, then you already have your answer.
Stop breaking your own heart trying to fix someone else's confusion. I know you want to believe they just need time, that maybe if you hold on a little longer, they'll finally see what's right in front of them. But real love doesn't keep you in limbo. It doesn't vanish when things get hard. It doesn't make you feel like you're too much to handle. The hard truth? If someone keeps making you feel uncertain, it's because they're not sure about you and that should never be okay.
You're allowed to stop waiting for clarity from someone who only gives you chaos. You're allowed to walk away from the person you love when that love is slowly killing the love you have for yourself. It will hurt, yes. But staying will hurt more. Because the kind of love that's right for you? You won't have to chase it. You won't have to earn it. It'll meet you where you are, take your hand, and stay without making you feel like you have to beg to be kept.