Someone posted a photo of this 80-year-old who showed up to join the army, carrying with him a small case with 2 t-shirts, a pair of extra pants, a toothbrush and a few sandwiches for lunch. He said he was doing it for his grandkids.
Trust your intuition. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t force it. Instead, take a step back, deep breath in and reassess the situation. The old adage patience is a virtue serves a great purpose in life.