Your entire life will change once you start letting people be themselves without trying to change them, being okay with their image of you without trying to correct them, enforcing your boundaries when necessary, and being publicly visible, private af, and not easily accessible.
You deserve a calm love that's good for your mental health and nervous system. A lover who's also your best friend, your safe space, and soothes your soul during stressful situations. Life is tough enough — you deserve someone who brings you more peace than problems.