I’ve heard single ladies say it must be that they are not attractive and so they keep putting so much pressure on themselves to change something externally. A lot of single ladies don’t actually have a hard time attracting men.
They are either just NOT ATTRACTED to the man they actually NEED or they are NOT ATTRACTING the one they WANT.
- Be a best example of His image.
- Don’t just attend but serve at local a
local church that’s pushing God’s
Kingdom.
- Stand up for truth of the KingdomT all
cost even if you are not obeying it yet!
Don’t reduce God’s truth to
accommodate your struggle or level
of spiritual growth. ✌🏽
But FIRST and MOST importantly SEEK (aim at, strive after) HIS kingdom and HIS righteousness [HIS way of DOING and being right—the attitude and character of God], and ALL these things will be GIVEN to you also.
Matthew 6:33 AMP
When we make God’s kingdom and culture FIRST and MOST, when we seek HIS WAY OF DOING, He gives us ALL THINGS.
In changing the culture around us for HIM, we change it for OURSELVES.
Having more Christlike people in the world is how we solve this crisis. This is not a man vs woman issue. There are just as much crazy and non Christlike women out there as men. Trust me! I’ve see it.
It is true that the dating pool is small and getting smaller. It’s certainly not because of your age or look. It’s because people are becoming more worldly than becoming like Christ.
We have to make sure that Christians are easily turning more into Doves more than into Dogs and Goats. That they are being transformed into the very image of Christ.
There is a difference between the PERSON of Jesus and the WAYS of Jesus. Many are after the PERSON and not His WAYS.
You may have given your LIFE to the PERSON Jesus but not given your STYLE to Him.
It’s one thing to GIVE our LIFE to Christ. It’s another thing to SUBMIT our STYLE to Him.
If your LIFE is GIVEN but your STYLE isn’t SUBMITTED, you won’t produce a LIFESTYLE of Jesus.
If your LIFE is GIVEN but your STYLE isn’t SUBMITTED, the style you HAVEN’T submitted will TAINT the life you have GIVEN.
Your lifestyle matters!!
Attending church services isn’t enough!
Working for a ministry isn’t enough!
Paying tithe and offering isn’t enough!
Giving to the poor isn’t enough!
Your LIFESTYLE matters!
We all have to ask ourselves these questions 👇🏾
What I am actively doing daily to contribute to a culture of Godliness?
What am I giving up or sacrificing personally to ensure that I am repopulating the kingdom and culture of this world and populating the and culture of God?
Which kingdom am I sowing into in my private life?
Which kingdom benefits the most from the way I live? The kingdom of God or the kingdom of the world?
The world needs more mature Christians. Not a maturity based on age or length of service, but based on conviction and character in the image of Christ. That’s the solution!!
Your immodesty, indecency, compromise may not cost you, but it contributes towards a culture that is contrary to Godliness that will eventually cost someone else.
Everyone is just trying to get their own in the dating scene. Majority aren’t even thinking about how their actions affect the next lady or guy out there! How it affects the next generation!
Yes, you are now married, but the dating culture is more polluted. You left behind trauma, disappointment, heartbreaks, insecurities that someone else has to do work for the rest of their life to clean up.
Yes, you got yours but you left a mess for others.
The bad news is that the dating scene isn’t getting better any soon. For as long as we keep raising dogs, there will continue to be a lot of them out there. You will see them on the streets and on online dating platforms. For as long as we keep contributing to the culture of ungodliness, the dating scene will continue to be filled with unGodly people.
It will be filled with people who are cold, deceptive, unloving, unfaithful, selfish, self seeking, impatient, unkind, immature and lack self control.