If you've suffered due to circumstances in your life or because of your vices, you've already paid the price to hold huge success.
Don't forget to cash your ticket in. It is a mistake to wallow in the miserable intersection, but most people do.
Rumplestiltskin technique can be adopted for life: learn how to spin it into gold; your only task is to figure out how to leverage your struggles into a unique advantage.
The secret is that you can rewrite the past to make everything worth it.
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They booed you for this post, but in reality it is profoundly difficult to be happy for anybody–– including your friends –– until your own life is in order.
People will pretend because they think it signals they're a good person but it requires an abundance of energy.
If I'm not in a good place myself, I won't wish people badly, but I legitimately do not have the mental space to care about their accomplishments.
@ManeeManjunath I have been experiencing the same for the past 12 months since moving back from the Netherlands Manasa, I'm a recent graduate but the situation is dire all round.
Ability is built, not unlocked. You do not have a latent superpower that can be unlocked in a day. You have to build up a skillset. You build it up high enough and then other people think it’s a superpower you always had.
It’s crazy how many grown-ass adults think there’s some kind of mutant motivational spider that’s gonna bite them and turn them into intellectual Spiderman the next day, some kind of magical motivational unlock that will bring about a sudden phase transition in their ability.
Don’t bother. It doesn’t exist. Iron Man is a much better mental model. Incrementally build up your skillset.
"Мы на месте"
Escape from Tarkov has gone gold! The final version is complete — production is finished, and the final countdown to release has begun. Years of hard work, testing, and refinement have peaked in the result we've all been waiting for.
For us, this is more than just a date on the calendar — it is a symbol of the journey we've traveled together with the community. Thank you for your unwavering support and feedback over these 10 years. Your ideas have helped breathe life and depth into the game.
For me personally, this is the most important and significant moment in my life.
See you in Tarkov!
You know you have to work really damn hard to figure out what fulfills you, right?
The solution to "I don't know what I want to do" is NOT "I guess I just won't do anything because I don't know what to do."
Even if you have literally zero self-knowledge, just try a bunch of random activities and reflect on what you liked and disliked. Boom! You now have some self-knowledge.
Consistently and seriously lean into a few of the things you liked the most (or disliked the least).
Just because something doesn't speak to you now doesn't mean it won't speak to you later. Developing baseline familiarity and competency can completely change the experience. Sometimes we think we dislike activities when we really just dislike doing unfamiliar things and sucking at them.
Also, leaning into some activities now doesn't mean you're committing to lean into them forever. Keep exploring on the side, and if you find some other activity you like better, switch it in!
You gotta come at the problem with a builder mentality, continually iterating. "What fulfills me?" is not some riddle that you can stare at until an epiphany comes to you.
Epiphanies seldom happen, and when they do, they only come after you put a ton of work into building. The epiphany is just the final piece that snaps a bunch of infrastructure into place that you previously built. Sometimes you feel the snap when it happens, but other times you don't even realize the significance until later down the road when you look back and try to make sense of how you got to where you are.
All the energy you spend wishing you were less dumb, put it towards identifying & filling in the prerequisites you're missing.
All the energy you spend wishing you were less lazy, put it towards building a habit, one step at a time.
Act, don't wish. Wishing is a waste of energy