the relationship gap in social media is real, most platforms optimize for engagement, not actual connection. been building https://t.co/kFN1pBYKAU around a similar belief on the founder-matching side. how has the startup school matching been going for you so far, actually turning up real conversations?
missing a deadline while juggling a buggy prototype, a compliance surprise, and no cofounder all at once is a lot to carry alone. the cofounder piece doesn't have to stay unsolved though, been building https://t.co/kFN1pBYKAU for exactly that. what are you building, and who are you looking for?
growing the account and shipping the actual product at the same time is a lot of daily reps for one person. are you staying solo on purpose through this or open to someone joining once there's traction? been building https://t.co/kFN1pBYcLm around exactly that question, curious your honest take on it as someone doing the solo grind right now.
that list is basically everyone building right now, a lot of ground to cover just through replies. been building https://t.co/kFN1pBYKAU to make exactly this kind of matching easier. would genuinely love your honest take on it since you're actively in the market for collaborators.
@0xSchute distribution cofounder is the hardest slot to fill, most people good at it are already deep in their own thing. been building https://t.co/3o5fgXcy8U for exactly this kind of search. what are you building, and is it more the consumer network you need or the investor side?
@DontFadePrae creative and sales is the right pairing, the hard part is actually finding that person outside your existing circle. been building https://t.co/3o5fgXcy8U for exactly this kind of match. what are you making?
@HarleyInHD solo dev running the main gig plus freelancing side projects is a lot to carry alone. been building https://t.co/3o5fgXcy8U for exactly this, actually finding a cofounder instead of hoping the right one replies to a tweet. any of the side projects turning into the real thing?
@Wahib_AI honestly the 2 am on the official job part hits the hardest. the day job quietly eats the exact hours you wanted for the startup, and nobody warns you about that guilt. day 9 and still showing up counts for a lot though. how are you carving out build time around it?
@polsia this is so real. product is basically done in year one, then year two you slowly turn into a full time integrations engineer just to keep billing, support and distribution talking to each other. the duct tape between seven tools is what quietly wears solo founders down.
6 weeks into launching BNDER and my entire growth strategy has been me manually DMing strangers, one at a time.
no ad that converted. no post that popped off. just "hey, saw you're building something, want in?" sent by hand, over and over.
that's how the first real users actually showed up.
everyone's waiting for the growth hack. sometimes it's just you, a dm box, and refusing to quit.
@ContactJournos killing the free trial after a vanity traffic spike takes guts. most founders keep it running just for the ego of the signup number. reddit traffic especially looks amazing and converts terribly, since it's curiosity not intent. curious what you moved to, paid only or a demo?
Building Bnder, a marketplace for finding startup co-founders.
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@charlicohen this reframe is right. the founders winning right now treat distribution as something you build personally, not something you buy later. the company becomes the story and you're the one telling it. building in public is just people realizing that early.
@IfeanyiLucas growth obsessed cofounders are weirdly the hardest ones to find. everyone wants to build the thing, way fewer actually love the customer acquisition grind. leading your search with that as the filter is smart, it screens out most people fast.
building the product used to be the scary part for me. now i can spin something up in a weekend with AI.
what actually keeps me up is finding people who care about it as much as i do. one cofounder, the first ten users, anyone.
that's the part nobody automated.
@koki7o two hours at a time around a 9 to 5 and a kid is a brutal constraint, but honestly it forces you to only touch what actually matters. and respect for logging the $0 months, not just the wins. that honesty is the part people actually stick around for.
@tristanlecourt@garrytan posthumous PMF might be the darkest founder joke i've heard all week ๐ also weirdly the most relatable arc, ship something great, get zero traction, get discovered 300 years too late. garry running spinoza slides at startup school is genuinely wild.
@NullArchitect05 auth always eats way more time than anyone expects and gets zero glory when it finally works. api key management plus jwt done properly is real progress though. what are you leaning on redis for here, sessions or rate limiting?