Chike Daniel Azinge

Lover of God. Happiness addict! compere, podcast host, voice over artiste, Lawyer, idea consultant.

[Ọládélé 🇳🇬👑 @Theoladeledada]

A guy lied on his CV and got the job, he doctored his degree, used AI to generate his certificate from school, lied about working in big competitors company, literally lied about everything in other to be able to put food on his table to feed his family.

Months later HR found out and fired him immediately without compensation. He signed, packed up, and left the company quietly.

A month later, the company’s IT infrastructure system crashed. Payroll, emails, everything down.

No one couldn’t fix it. Senior engineers tried and were looking like newbies. Nothing worked out at all. Then someone said it: only he ever understood that system well.

HR asked who, and the new intern mentioned his name, so they called him back. He picked up: “I don’t work for you anymore and I have move on with my life.”

The system stayed down for, the ceo of the company had to call him directly to beg him annd that he was going to give him an huge sum of money if this is fixed, he agreed, fixed it in less than 15 minutes and they ended up rehiring him on a higher salary and turned him to CTO.

He then said, Next time, verify skills before verifying CVs.

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

@ArcSadam Sigh a huge sigh of relief, cos another school fees installment don land

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

@Olamideeone 10 thousand dollars. Thanks in advance

[Dele Olawanle @dolawanle]

ENJOY YOUR MONEY NOW BECAUSE….

I have lived in the UK since February 1990 and have spent the majority of my life here. God has been good to me, and I am grateful.

Over those years, I enjoyed stability, peace, and comfort in the company of some close friends who became pillars in my life. We suffered together: Did odd jobs, battled with the immigration authorities, studied together, got married, raised our children, bought properties, and made some money. We looked forward to our retirement together, and so we thought.

Suddenly, people started getting sick and mostly of cancer. One by one, those pillars that surrounded me started crumbling. None of you reading this will believe what has happened to my circle of friends in the past three years. I lost my PA of many years on the 22nd of May 2023, another friend on the 21st of August 2023, another on 31 January 2025, another on the 3rd of February 2026, another on the 19th of May 2026, and another on the 24th of May 2026. These were people I was very close to, and I was involved in their care. They left harrowing voice notes for me and told me things I cannot disclose to anyone before they died. All of them died of cancer. Sadly, I had to bury three of them as their friend and pastor. No two days have been the same for me. I pick up my phone to call them, but they are no longer there. When some clients said they called and sent messages but did not get a response, it was not deliberate. I ignored myself, too, but I am getting better. Life happened!

Why am I being this open? All of them suffered and worked hard. They were between 50 and 65 years old. They looked forward to their pension. They looked forward to spending time with their spouse and grandchildren, but it never happened.

So, to you, who is working hard and looking forward to your pension, there may be no pension. There may be no old age. Start enjoying your life now. Start enjoying your money now. Start fulfilling those dreams now. Do not spend your life laboring to die without tasting what you labored for. That was what happened to my seven hardworking and good friends within the last three years. I am heartbroken, and I missed them all. There is no one to throw football banters with. They all supported teams that I don’t support or like😜

For my remaining friends and readers of this article, may the Lord help us and protect us. Remember that life is temporary and unpredictable. May we enjoy the fruits of our labor, but we need to turn our prayers to intentional enjoyment of our money before it is too late. If old age comes, it comes, but enjoy now. Psalm 39:6.

Hold on, I am trying to book my next holiday. Book yours too. See you later.

My name is Dele Olawanle. I am a lawyer, a preacher, and a coach. I think, write, and speak to improve lives. Share this post. Follow me for more insights and inspiration. #deleolawanlesnuggets

[OMOBA 29 @Nail3r_]

This is unreal…
Oh my days!!!!!! 😭😭😭

[OMOBA 29 @Nail3r_]

The only validation we seek is from God.

[5FITCEO @5FITCEO]

You cannot treat people like garbage and worship God at the same time.

[OMOBA 29 @Nail3r_]

Louder!!!!!!

[Brixon_za_boss @AlhajimaiHonda]

We sometimes get carried away with our own perception of where we should be forgetting where we are coming from.

Gratitude is a must!!!

[OMOBA 29 @Nail3r_]

Some of the hardest seasons of my life became the very place where I encountered the saving grace of God and discovered what true freedom looks like.

From that journey, Anchor of Hope Global was born, a vision to help people find hope, healing, and the strength to rebuild their lives.

Today I’m grateful to share that our website is officially live.

You can now visit the website and join the waitlist to be among the first to access the app when it launches.

🌐 https://t.co/5lzzQw159J
Please follow @TheAnchorOfHope

“We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.” — Hebrews 6:19

[OMOBA 29 @Nail3r_]

Serving God is not by performance and shouting AMEN….

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

@Nail3r_ This na d Favour we dey ask for... E don dey show now you don dey fear 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Omolomo @Omolomo_o]

PRESS RELEASE 🚨

PLATEAU STATE GOVERNMENT ORDERS 48 HOURS CURFEW IN JOS NORTH LOCAL GOVERNMENT AREA STARTING FROM TONIGHT !!!!

Following the tragic security incident that occurred at Gari Ya Waye community Angwan Rukuba today Sunday 29th March 2026 resulting in the loss of lives, while several others sustained varying degrees of injuries.

The Plateau State Government in conjunction with security agencies wishes to inform the general public of the imposition of a 48 hour curfew within Jos North Local government Area with immediate effect, commencing from 12 midnight of 29th March, to 1st April, 2026.

Signed:
Rt. Hon. Joyce Lohya Ramnap, mni
Honorable Commissioner for Information and Communication
March 29, 2026

[Brixon_za_boss @AlhajimaiHonda]

@Abdul_Ahmad_ @ZagazOlaMakama @Waspapping_ To think that you are using the death of innocent people as propaganda is even more appalling and only raises more concerns as to your character. You are part of the 10% of Muslims that paint Islam in a bad light & why "terrorism" will forever be associated with Islam.

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

@ChinweBlesing My dear... Taya me oh! See me seriously checking the bottom of my phone to see maybe the episode dropped there

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

To the people that know the people who made the show " THE DIPLOMAT" , please help me tell them I said "az how na?" What kind of suspense is that at the end of season 3?
Okay okay, I agree. Oya when is the next season coming out ?

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

We are also on @ApplePodcasts and here is the link : https://t.co/RgsUXsEWIw

[Chike Daniel Azinge @danzingyII]

Hello people, We started a little something and we re about to build a community. Take a journey with us as we go down the conversations about Men and the issues that beguile their everyday living. : https://t.co/xDmeUm10Li

[Will Knowland @beherleader]

Passive Husbands, Anxious Wives

A “passive husband” doesn’t just create frustration.

He creates uncertainty.

And uncertainty is rocket fuel for anxiety.

Because in a home, someone has to carry:

- direction
- decisions
- boundaries
- repair after conflict
- emotional steadiness
- spiritual/relational leadership

When a man won’t step into that responsibility—when he avoids decisions, avoids tension, waits for her moods to settle, stays “nice” instead of clear—he may think he’s keeping the peace.

But what she experiences is:
“There’s no one holding this together.”

So her nervous system does what nervous systems do when safety disappears:

It tries to manufacture certainty.

That’s where so many “anxious wives” come from.

Not from being crazy.

Not from being “just controlling.”

From being forced into a role they never wanted:
the anxious manager of the marriage.

So she fills the vacuum.

It shows up as:

- micromanaging and control
- nagging / criticism
- repeated bids for reassurance
- “testing” (poking the relationship to see if he’ll finally hold frame)
- escalation when nothing changes

A lot of men interpret this as:
“She just wants power.”

But in many marriages it’s closer to:
“She’s trying to create stability where she can’t feel it.”

Then the cycle locks in:

Her anxiety → pressure / criticism
His passivity → withdrawal / avoidance
His withdrawal → her anxiety spikes

So she clamps down harder
And he goes even more passive

Anxiety → criticism → withdrawal → more anxiety.

It becomes self-reinforcing until both people are trapped:

She feels alone and unsafe.
He feels like he can never do anything right.

And there’s another accelerant that shows up constantly:
A wife is not built to carry her husband’s existential weight.

When he collapses emotionally, “dumps” his inner chaos on her, or makes her his therapist—she doesn’t feel closer.

She feels the ground move under her feet.

At a gut level it reads as:
“If he can’t carry himself… can he carry us?”

And that produces the same result: anxiety.

In classical virtue terms, what’s often happening here is not a personality issue.

It’s a virtue issue.

Passivity is frequently a failure of:

- prudence (not just “thinking,” but choosing and executing)
- fortitude (the courage to face conflict, decisions, and responsibility)

Because prudence isn’t endless analysis.

Prudence is:
deliberate → decide → act.

And there’s a counterfeit “virtue” a lot of men hide inside:

Pseudo-patience.

The kind of “patience” that is really just fear of tension…

and spineless toleration of things that actually need leadership.

So what’s the solution?

Not domination.
Not harshness.
Not “being the boss.”

The solution is direction.

A man who calmly takes responsibility:

- makes decisions (even imperfect ones)
- initiates hard conversations
- sets boundaries without rage
- repairs after conflict
- carries his own interior life instead of handing it to her
- leads with steadiness, not ego

That creates what so many wives are starving for:
structural safety.

And then something almost always happens:

When steadiness is real, control starts to look unnecessary.

When a man consistently shows “I’ve got us,”
a woman can stop acting like she has to be the man.

So here's the truth:

Her anxiety is often the symptom.
His passivity is often the trigger.

Men: the goal isn’t to “win.” It’s to carry responsibility with calm.

Women: the goal isn’t to “clamp down harder.” It’s to release control when leadership is proven.

If you’ve lived this loop, you know how real it is.