At 18, she has choices.
At 18, you have nothing.
At 25, she looks for love.
At 25, you're chasing goals.
At 30, she slows down.
At 30, you're just getting started.
Bro,
A woman's life starts at 18. A man's life starts at 30. A woman is born with value. A man is born with no value. She has to protect her value. You have to build your value.
I didn't make the rules, Nature did.
If you want to make serious money, understand that you’re competing with people who already have capital, networks, and leverage.
You’re not just competing on skill. You’re competing on resources.
That’s why trying to do everything alone is a disadvantage. You need strong relationships, solid partnerships, and people who can lock in, share knowledge, and move faster with you.
“I don’t have friends” is not a flex.
“I don’t like asking for help” is even worse.
Because the people you’re competing with are collaborating, pooling resources, and accelerating each other.
You don’t win big alone.
Once a woman starts to have sex, it's difficult for her to abstain from it.
If she is not sleeping with a man, she'll be masturbating or craving for sex.
There are exceptions to this though.
But do not be that man that would be sexually active, & then you allow a sexually active woman to decieve you with "no sex before marriage".
Except you decide that it's what you want.
Other than that, please do not accept that condition.
You deserve to know if you and the woman you want to marry are sexually compatible.
And vice versa.
God's standard is that both the man and the woman must abstain from sex before marriage.
However, we are humans and not God.
And godly people are not hypocrites.
It's religious people that are hypocrites.
And God has no religion.
Sex in marriage is a big deal.
And the dearth of it in marriage can frustrate you and cause significant crack in it.
It can be exciting in the beginning. But overtime, you may start to lose interest in your spouse because both of you are not sexually compatible.
You want different things.
You crave different things.
And before you know it, sex becomes a chore. Instead of it being pleasurable to both of you, you lose interest and hardly do it.
Even if you marry your wife as a virgin, she may one day start to lose interest in sleeping with you and vice versa.
If both of you date with sincerity, you'll not withhold sex from each other. Because yout body would crave for it.
It's only when you have both had sex severally, and you the man doesn't feel tired, and you begin to see her far more than sex, that is when you'd know that you have found your wife.
Because sometimes, you'd think that you are in love. But after sleeping with her, you start to lose interest and withdraw.
That same thing can happen in marriage.
The difference is that you're now hooked with someone that you don't enjoy sleeping with.
End.
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One thing I respect about my father is the decision he made later in life. One day, he chose to leave my mother. He rented an apartment and lived alone for the rest of his life. He never remarried. Instead, he kept his life simple and private.
He found one young woman he paid to spend time with once a week, and that arrangement suited him. My father was an extremely calm and quiet man. We could almost count the number of words he spoke in a day. He rarely talked, but when he acted, his actions were firm.
My mother did everything she could to get him to come back, but he refused. As children, we all knew there were serious issues in their marriage, and many of us believed my mother played a big role in the constant conflict.
Watching that situation taught me something powerful: a man’s peace of mind matters, and sometimes walking away is the only way to protect it.
That lesson stayed with me and later influenced my own marriage. At one point, when my wife began creating constant problems and tension in our home, I didn’t argue endlessly.
I told her calmly that I was leaving and that a friend was coming to pick me up. I packed my bags and my clothes and was fully prepared to go. Only then did she rush home from work, apologizing, crying, and promising to change.
What I learned is that women only take a man seriously when they see he is truly willing to walk away. When a man shows he is not afraid to lose the relationship, the dynamic changes. Boundaries become real. Words start to carry weight.
To the Nigerian woman, romantic gestures mean nothing if it doesn't come with a clear and basic cost
That's why the lovely gesture of giving flowers was replaced with cash bouquets because they can't comprehend the value of actual roses
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