My opinion on ''Findom''
A few days ago, in the car, Charlotte and myself talked about this subject. I would like to warn all my sissy friends (you!) to not engage in Findom. Findom stands for ''financial domination''. Basicly, someone who treats you like shit and then takes your money away. These Findoms are motivated by money. The reason they are mean to you, is because it makes you feel submissive so that they can then take your money away. They break you down, they make you feel worthless and then they take your earnings. This is abuse. This is not BDSM.
Don't get me wrong. By all means, spoil your Mistress, give them presents or take them out to dinner, they deserve it! A real BDSM session? Sure! Pay for their service! But money should not be the core reason. That is not a good foundation.
Taking advantage of submissive and/or lonely people like that for money (=Findom) is predatory behavior. It is really low.
I recently heard a story about a victim who paid a $50 ''tribute'' to talk to a Mistress.
The ''Mistress'' replied with : ''Double it loser''
The person doubled the money and send another $50.
The ''Mistress'' replied with : No! I mean DOUBLE it! Send $100!!
The victim didn't double it and that was the end of it.
This is not BDSM.
The fact that people make fake profiles and even Findom bots just shows how many desperate, lonely people there are who fall victim to this.
''But Joyce, I really want a Mistress so so so bad, There is no other option....'''
Yes there is babe! โค๏ธ
Instead of spending it on Findom, spend it on yourself!
Buy that comfortable chastity cage or that pretty dress, or how about hair removal, or a personal trainer to help you get that feminin body you dream about. And no, this is not an advert for the sissy market, buy your dress or cage on Temo or amazon for all I care! But invest in your own happyness. You will grow, and eventually, because of it, you will find someone who wants you for who you are.
Try to be open about your kink or you being a sissy. Surely, you will get denied by many, but there will always be a few people out there who DREAM to be served by a pretty little sissy like you!
That is my opinion on Findom.
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