delayed grief is dangerous. you don't cry. you're numb, and you move on like nothing significant happened. you keep suppressing everything until the day it finally escapes, and when it does, it's like a dam bursting, flooding your mind and heart, making it difficult to cope
- I will NOT date a man with a child
- I will NOT give a man a baby without being married first
- I will NOT marry someone I have to teach that house work are shared jobs, I.e someone who thinks cleaning, cooking, looking after the kids etc, is up to the woman.
- No mommy boys
The secret to being a private person is to overshare dumb shit so people think you are an open book but then not tell them any of the important details of your life.
Men who pursue and lead women on for the sole purpose of just having access to her — knowing their desires are not in alignment, intentions are not clear, or he cannot provide the life she deserves — are emotionally manipulative. Whether they are conscious of it or not.