a fun fact that i think a lot of people don't know is that the bechdel test is not a serious analytical framework but is in fact a joke from a comic strip
@aquabIooms it is, to put it lightly, extremely telling that so many people absolutely fucking LEAPT at the slightest bit of evidence that heard was the "real abuser"
when you go to starbucks and wait in a long line do you go to the counter and snap "this is TERRIBLE customer service, do you know how long i was in line just now?" before even like. ordering anything?