@pinkcels The replies on this post from women is enough for men who are looking towards marriage to re-evaluate if marriage actually benefits them in any way. You can always break-up easily if your girlfriend acts like this. But it's really hard when you are married.
@SouloverMind@briastudiogames@IncelsCo@ArtemisConsort You claim abuse is layered and deceptive, but red flags aren’t invisible—they’re just ignored or rationalized in the moment. And saying “I’m not wasting energy” doesn’t make you right; it’s just a convenient way to bow out without addressing the flaws in your reasoning.
@SouloverMind@briastudiogames@IncelsCo@ArtemisConsort So bitterness screams out loud, but abuse whispers so softly no one could possibly notice? That’s a convenient excuse for ignoring red flags. Also We’re done here” is code for “I can’t defend this anymore.” If your point was solid, you’d let your logic do the talking.
@SouloverMind@briastudiogames@IncelsCo@ArtemisConsort Nice pivot, but no one said bitterness justifies abuse. The question is why one’s detectable but the other isn’t. Try addressing that instead of moral posturing.
@SouloverMind@IncelsCo@ArtemisConsort So, they "detect" but still proceed? That’s not "settling for potential"; it’s ignoring reality. You’re just romanticizing poor decision-making.
@SouloverMind@IncelsCo@ArtemisConsort You’re dodging the question. If women are sharp enough to sense bitterness from strangers, why can’t they spot red flags from someone they know intimately? Familiarity doesn’t explain overlooking abuse—it should make red flags more obvious, not less.