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Before kids, I didn’t have strong opinions on how I wanted to educate my own. I thought “good grades, good schools, the rest will work itself out.”
Then I read this book and my mind exploded.
*Dr. Maté showed how*:
• me being stressed as a parent might be the number 1 worst thing I can do to my children
• why my children having healthy attachment to the nonstressed version of me might be the number 1 best thing I can support
• why it’s great for my kids to have friends but not for those friends to become more important than the parental bond
• why delaying social media and phones as long as possible is advantageous
• why homeschooling might not be a crazy idea after all
*After reading it, we*:
• started considering homeschooling (and we might actually do it next year)
• decided our boys won’t have phones or social media until at least teenage years
• doubled down on building career flexibility so that we can spend more time pursuing epic adventures with our kids as a family
• started consciously trying to de-stress in all aspects of our life, especially when our children are around
• acknowledged the big slice of humble pie that we just ate, and reminded ourselves to remain intellectually humble.
The book was especially meaningful to me because coming out of the pandemic (and having homeschooled the boys during that time) I FELT many of these things but didn’t have the community or the words and science to back up what I was feeling. The book did that for me.
My oldest is 8. I still feel like I’m figuring it all out. And I like it that way.
I’ve come to enjoy having my belief systems challenged. “Hold onto Your Kids” by Dr. Gabor Maté did that in such a beautiful way.
Di dalam harta mereka ada hak orang miskin yg meminta dan orang miskin yg tidak meminta ( QS. Adz Dzariyat:19)
Yuk berinfaq dan menolong orang yang kesulitan harta 😀
@susipudjiastuti "Allahumma innaa na'uudzubika min syarri maa kholaq wa min syarri ghoosiqin idzaa waqab wa min syarrinnaffaatsaatifil 'uqod wa min syarri haasidin idzaa hasad" 🤲
@AlissaWahid Intinya haji itu ujian keimanan, kesabaran & keikhlasan. Persiapkan segala sesuatunya terutama dana & perbekalan termasuk jika diperlukan makanan tambahan scr mandiri. Semoga Allah memampukan semua jamaah haji khususnya Indonesia dgn rizqi & hati yg lapang.. Mabruk, Aamiin 🤲
Almarhum KH. Khoirul Muttaqin adalah guru. SIT Darul Abidin khususnya guru Alquran berhutang ilmu kepada beliau. Ilmu yang menetes ke setiap siswa darulabidin InsyaAllah ada di sana kontribusi beliau. Ilalliqo Ya Ustadz.
Selamat Hari Pramuka ke-61, 14 Agustus 2022.
Mari kita darmakan Satya Pramuka dan membaktikan Darma Pramuka.
Pramuka itu beriman dan senantiasa menjalankan kewajibannya terhadap Tuhan Yang Maha Esa.
Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rooji'uun.. keluarga besar Pramuka pangkalan SIT Darul Abidin turut kehilangan. Semoga Allah swt mengampuni semua kesalahannya. Aamiin
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