Can we talk about when God randomly changes your desires? You wake up one day and suddenly you lose your taste for all the things you used to do, say, wear, and even the people you used to be around. You want something different, something better, and you think something’s wrong the whole time. Meanwhile, He’s just growing you, maturing you, and shaping you into who He wants you to be. It’s the wilderness season, but it prepares you for the Promised Land.
The Bible warns us not to look back at old friendships or any relationships that God has delivered us from. Lot's wife did and literally became stuck in time. My prayer is that when you're tempted to return to the past, the spirit reminds you there's so much more ahead of you!
Believing in Jesus and following Jesus are not the same thing. Even the demons believe. But truly following means to deny yourself, pick up your cross and follow HIm.
The reality is…none of us are easy to be with. We all suffer from something so when you meet someone who’s willing to stay committed to understand you and actually want to grow with you, don’t let something silly like ego and pride ruin it.
as long as your intentions pure, don’t allow anyone or anything to disturb your peace. what’s meant for you will find you. everything aligns the way it’s supposed to, and whatever doesn’t stay was never meant to cost you anything in the first place.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score.
And eventually, the bill comes due.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
my therapist once said “accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others” and i just whew.
No amount of chemistry can ever make up for the anxiety that is guaranteed if you remain in a relationship with someone who doesn’t fully choose you.
The only way out is to choose yourself and let them go.
365/365,
made it to the last day of 2025. Through every high, every low, every quiet moment of doubt and every loud moment of joy—thank you, God, for carrying us all the way here.
Happy New Year’s Eve🥂✨