@MiseryHighlight Be you the way you want yo be you. For many people, that is an insurmountable hurdle. I know I can do it in some areas of my self presentation, but I can't in other areas.
@TheRealQryzti Better to r evaluate the current situation and choose new goals. Had you achieved your previous goals, you would be doing the same thing.
@Atheist_Trooper My dad's wife called me a Grinch because I didn't want to empty my bank account at the end of the year and lie to my children as to who got the gifts. Funny thing is, I use santa as an analogy of my enlightenment from god. Once you know, you can't re-believe in either.