As long as a ngga tryna do better it’s okay to stick by his side💯💕 Fck the media , fck yo friends, fck the family, & fck these messy ssa hos too . When you see YOUR ngga trying to change STAY PUT !! Sht gone get harder before it get easier but you stay solid periodttt💯🤌🏾🤏🏾
Because you understand kindness. Those that have never experienced it often look at the one being kind as being naive (because comparatively they wouldn't be kind in the moment if they were them) so they become cruel in belief the kind one is intending harm with their kindness. They fuck themselves as a result.
Kindness comes from a place where you have deep understanding of what it is to be treated cruel and is fueled by never wanting to make anyone else feel that way intentionally. Doesn't mean we never hurt anyone, means we've been treated cruel enough to not wish it on others.
If you've never experienced pure cruelty aimed at you and claim to be kind, you need to understandvyou are just being nice, not kind at all. And nice is extremely fake.
Sometimes timing and alignment disagrees with eachother me and my ex wanted the same things just at different paces.
She wanted things now I wanted the same things later after gaining stability and getting my life together. Life is short but it’s also a marathon not a race
My friend just said to me:
"Sometimes you have to make peace with the fact that you are the villain in someone else's story even if you thought you were doing the right thing. You don't get to tell them how to narrate their experience"
I want the kind of relationship where no matter how hard things get, we sit down, communicate, and figure it out together instead of giving up on each other
I think it's nice to have someone who's aware of your sensitivity and learns to handle your feelings gently, with patience and care. It can be incredibly comforting to show your vulnerability to someone and have them learn how to respond to it with understanding and thoughtfulnes