@itsSh0la That "man up" agenda is the biggest scam I've ever seen! I'm happy you pin pointed the "men" who do chest it! It happens to all humans...how is it that as a man you need to be brushing through life like this? For how long??
Most times when people say someone is proud, the person most likely just respects him/herself and doesn't tolerate passing of your boundaries towards them. Those are actually my own kind of people.