Jasmine Webb

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[Jasmine Webb @datawiseco]

Just putting this here so everyone knows where my new favorite sticker is from

[stella @foxktisshit]

@419err “Cause her face card strong”

[Mikayla🧸🖤 @Kayla_quotezz]

I realized people only like you when you’re easy to benefit from. When you say yes, stay quiet, and let things slide, they love you. But once you start saying no, setting boundaries, and standing on what’s right for you, everything changes. Suddenly you got an attitude. Suddenly you’re the problem. Truth is, they never respected you, they just liked your silence. I’m not being difficult, I’m being real. If me protecting my peace offends you, that’s your issue, not mine.

[Mistress Dividend @mistressdivy]

Everyone shut up I just learned a new word:

Eremition
(eh-ruh-mish-un)
The act of gradually fading from the lives of others, not out of malice, but a desire for solitude or renewal.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

Everyone loves preaching about mental health on the timeline, but the brutal truth is nobody actually wants to be around a depressed person. The second your struggle becomes an inconvenience, the distancing begins.

​Society loves the aesthetic of support and the hashtags, but they despise the reality. Real depression isn't a cute movie scene; it's zero energy and canceled plans.

​The moment you stop being fun, you are suddenly labeled as "negative," a "burden," or "too heavy to handle." They want you healed, but refuse to sit in the dark with you while you hurt.
​People will literally watch you drown and then complain that your splashing is ruining their vibe. You learn very quickly who actually loves you, and who just loved the entertaining version of you.
​The silence you get from your "friends" when you hit rock bottom is the loudest reality check of adulthood.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

People have exactly a two-week limit on their sympathy. When you first break down, everyone is supportive. But if your depression lasts longer than a fortnight, they get incredibly annoyed.

​You are not allowed to have long-term struggles. Society expects you to have a quick, cinematic breakdown, cry it out over the weekend, and bounce back to being productive by Monday.

​The exact second they realize your depression isn't just a temporary mood swing but a constant struggle, the "take all the time you need" energy completely vanishes.

​They stop checking in and start treating your mental state like a deliberate character flaw. You aren't struggling anymore; you are just "not trying hard enough" or "choosing to be miserable."

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" and i felt this to the core.

[Kush @kush_147]

Their final gift to you, was repeating their pattern one more time so you could finally see that, despite their potential, this is who they choose to be

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Realizing that you are not compatible with someone (because they don’t meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. Look how much you’ve grown.

[IG: STORMNYX @stormnyx_]

Your entire life will change when you prioritize reciprocity. Stop supporting those who don't support you. Stop being there for those who are never there for you. Stop sacrificing your needs to maintain a one-sided relationship. Start pouring into cups that pour back into yours.

[𝟮𝟭.🛸 @Big_tagg]

I will pay for my convenience.. I don’t like stress😭

[A.VICTOR @Lifeof_AG01]

Your trauma is not an excuse to be manipulative, nonchalant, mean, or narcissistic towards good people who are trying to love you.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Even if you're genuinely sorry, you still have to deal with the consequences.

[BIG DADDY @Hearts0faKing]

Acknowledge. Apologize. Take accountability. Change. Then let’s talk.

[𝐀𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐘 𝐀𝐃𝐀 @Auntyadaa]

Lately, I’ve realized my tolerance for people being careless with my feelings has grown very thin. I’m becoming more aware of who considers how their actions affect me and who doesn’t. Yes It hurts, especially when it comes from people I believed we shared a deeper understanding.

But this awareness isn’t about resentment, it’s about clarity. I’m learning to protect my peace, set better boundaries, and invest my energy where care and respect are mutual.

[☈€ᗰ☡€↳ 🥀⭒ @ohremzel]

i can be really mean when i’m overstimulated

[Ginger @Gboye_Rave]

Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.

[Zakia @zakiaonsol]

if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, l'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.

[AYANNY @gaygirldiaries]

to be CONSIDERED is my favorite form of love. from anybody .. just consider me..

[Jay @Wavymafia]

A lot of y’all don’t wanna change but want the best version of somebody else.