Most leaders value loyalty. Great leaders put a higher premium on integrity.
Loyalty is allegiance to power. You're expected to show deference and follow orders.
Integrity is allegiance to principles. You're expected to challenge orders that violate your mission or values.
Living joyfully can be hard for two reasons:
1. It can *feel bad* to have joy when the world around you is in pain.
2. It can *feel hard* to have joy when you’re in a bad situation.
But we rejoice, not because all is well, but because we trust that God is at work.
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Most people can’t handle nuance. They need their information nice and neat and categorical. Unfortunately we are complex beings operating in a broken world. The more you can deal with the nuance the easier it becomes to trust in a being higher and more powerful than yourself.
If your view of the world is primarily influenced by power dynamics, you don’t have an ethic, you have a sociology.
A sociology that will never stop evolving based on who is powerful and who is not.
That’s our cultural moment.
The triumph of sociology and the death of ethics.
Worldly wisdom: Waiting is an evil to eliminate.
Godly wisdom: Waiting is a virtue to cultivate.
Christianity is, by definition, a religion of delayed gratification. How we wait will mark us as sojourners and strangers in an instant gratification world.
Many of us who grew up in the church were handed very good things, but with handles that break:
- we were taught to hold the Word of God, with the handles of legalism
- to hold a holistic, integrated sexual ethic, with the handles of purity culture
In ministry, it’s easy to think of the wounds, the betrayals, & the relational brokenness as constant distractions & drains on your calling.
But it’s so important to understand that faithfully walking through suffering IS the calling. That is our greatest work.
Any identity found outside of God (popularity, social following, wealth, beauty, possessions) is shifting sand. You can lose your self worth when it’s found on earth. It can never be lost when it’s found in Jesus.
There were 22 years in between Joseph’s dream in Genesis 37 and the birth of it in Gen. 42. Often God gives a vision that takes longer to come to fruition than we think. He’s never late, we’re just impatient.