Stay flexible enough to receive. You haven’t met all the friends life has for you. You haven't touched or tasted all the abundance the world has for you.
@khanofkhans11_ The disrespect only comes if you have a low aura and do not have that “confident” stance at all time. Once you got a high aura and strong level of confidence, trust me, nobody will disrespect you. And most importantly, learn to respect others too!
I swear to god, this guy is absolutely right. 💯‼️
I always tell my friends that the first step to rising above the manipulation of women is to rise above that of your mother. Once you can do that, no woman can manipulate you—you only allow certain things to the extent you are comfortable with.
This also applies to the love shown to you by women. The day you realize that your mother’s love for you is conditional is the day you realize unconditional love is a myth.
You only recognize the genuineness of love from women by what constitutes their “condition.” To some, it’s just giving them attention, to some it’s money, to some it’s your looks, to some it’s a combination, and to some it’s your intellect. This is the same way you are incapable of loving anyone without these conditions as a man.
In the end, mother or not, everything is attached to something and every love is conditional. Know this and live accordingly.
@sp0ttie Now this is entirely based on the family you are born into… the kind of mother you have, the manner of relationship with your siblings and the “empathetic nature” of your personal being.
If you have experienced genuine love in a family, then you already know who lift you up!
One of the most comforting realizations I've had is that even when you feel stuck, nothing else is.
Life is constantly moving, constantly rearranging itself in ways we cannot see.
People are changing. Relationships are changing. Opportunities are appearing and disappearing. Entire futures are being shaped by conversations that haven't happened yet.
I think one of the reasons hopelessness feels so convincing is because we mistake our current circumstances for permanent ones.
But the world is not standing still just because we are.
- The person who changes your life may not have entered it yet.
- The opportunity you've been waiting for may not exist yet.
- The version of you that solves today's problems may not exist yet either.
Everything is in motion.
As long as you're still moving forward, you're participating in a future that has not been written yet.
And sometimes hope is nothing more than remembering that.
I dont understand why a man is asked to go get married just because he has made money.
"You have a good job. You have a good apartment. You have money. What are you waiting for? Get yourself a woman."
Get a woman to do what? Getting married is not the problem, I have a problem with the monetary qualification. Why do I need money to get married and she comes as she is?
Marriage is a merger not an acquisition. Thus, your financial status is irrelevant. Whatever stage you are in life and you choose to commit, the parties come together to do life together, which means that the bills become one. Both income are family income and the couple put family first by investing both income to the success of the home. Marriage is not the acquiring of somebody to increase your burden and expenses.