One thing about humans is that we often fight the hardest for people who don’t value us. We see all the signs that someone couldn’t care less, yet we still go out of our way trying to please them…The funny part?
The same people we’re stressing ourselves over are probably somewhere else doing everything they can to win the attention of someone who doesn’t value them either… Life is funny like that. We’re all chasing someone while someone else is chasing us.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
I recommend using absence to gain your respect back.
I recommend giving a girl your number instead of asking for hers. If she likes you, she will text you.
I recommend building your body, especially your shoulders. You'd be surprised how much more attractive you look with a better frame.
I recommend putting people in their place at the very first sign of disrespect.
I recommend not chasing people. Pay attention to who chooses you.
I recommend leaving rooms where you constantly have to prove your worth.
I recommend being honest from the beginning. Pretending is exhausting.
I recommend saving money before people know you're making money.
I recommend letting people underestimate you.
I recommend taking pictures and videos of your parents more often.